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    Why Do People Like Literally Me Characters? Breaking Down the Weird Appeal of Modern Antiheroes

    Marcus AdetolaBy Marcus AdetolaSeptember 11, 2024Updated:September 30, 2024No Comments5 Mins Read
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    Why Do People Like Literally Me Characters? Breaking Down the Weird Appeal of Modern Antiheroes
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    There’s no escaping it—open Twitter (sorry, X), and there’s some bloke with a Joker avatar waxing lyrical about how “literally me” he is.

    No, mate, you’re not Patrick Bateman—you just have a gym membership and a serious case of unresolved angst.

    But the obsession is real, and if you’ve ever scrolled through Instagram, Reddit, or some shadowy corner of 4chan, you’ve probably seen the rise of the “literally me” phenomenon.

    It’s like a sad, twisted club, and membership is growing. So, why do people—especially young men—fall head over heels for these deeply flawed, emotionally stunted characters?

    What is it about Ken from Barbie, Ryan Gosling in Drive, and The Joker that makes them more relatable than your average Marvel hero? Is it the cool jackets? The existential crises?

    Or is it something darker, a reflection of our collective disillusionment with, well, everything?

    The Appeal of Mental Breakdown Chic: Why Literally Me Characters Resonate with the Disillusioned

    It’s not like people are cheering for these characters to succeed (they rarely do), but there’s something about their slow-motion personal implosion that hits a little too close to home. 

    Brad Pitt as Tyler Durden in Fight Club via 20th Century Studios
    Brad Pitt as Tyler Durden in Fight Club via 20th Century Studios

    Tyler Durden in Fight Club is practically the patron saint of disenchanted blokes everywhere.

    Rejecting society? Check. Replacing self-improvement with chaos? Double check​​.

    The attraction is that these characters openly wrestle with the discontent and frustration that so many feel but can’t quite articulate—except, maybe, in the form of a questionable Instagram bio.

    So, why do people like literally me characters? Because they see their own struggles—be it mental health, societal pressure, or good old-fashioned loneliness—mirrored in these guys.

    Christian Bale as Patrick Bateman in American Psycho (2000) Image via Imdb
    Christian Bale as Patrick Bateman in American Psycho (2000) Image via Imdb

    It’s not so much that they want to be Patrick Bateman (one would hope), but that they feel understood by characters who are, frankly, as messed up as they are.

    These characters don’t win. They don’t get the girl. They just survive, barely.

    Is Ken from Barbie a Literally Me Character? Yes, and It’s Hilarious

    Ah, Ken, the plastic, preppy icon of Barbie fame. What on earth could he possibly have in common with Travis Bickle or Patrick Bateman? Turns out, quite a lot. 

    Ken spends his entire existence living in Barbie’s shadow, desperately trying to carve out a place for himself.

    In the 2023 Barbie movie, this existential meltdown reaches new heights—and honestly, if Ken isn’t a “literally me” character by the end of it, what even is he? ​

    Ken’s crisis is more comedic than tragic, but the parallels are there.

    He’s a guy searching for meaning in a world that constantly tells him he doesn’t matter, and if that’s not relatable, what is? Is Ken a literally me character? Absolutely.

    He’s got all the hallmarks: frustration, identity crisis, and that underlying feeling of being misunderstood.

    It’s the perfect cocktail of existential dread, just served with more neon and fewer axe murders.

    The Ryan Gosling Effect: Why He Keeps Playing “Literally Me” Blokes

    Drive Movie (2011) Poster
    Drive Movie (2011) Poster

    We’ve got to talk about Ryan Gosling. It’s like Hollywood gave him a checklist of lonely, brooding antiheroes, and he’s methodically working his way down the list. Driver in Drive? Check. 

    Officer K in Blade Runner 2049? Double check. This guy is the king of quiet rage, and it’s working.

    The beauty of Gosling’s “literally me” characters isn’t in what they say—because they barely speak—it’s in what they don’t say.

    They don’t fit into the classic hero mould; they’re awkward, emotionally stunted, and, yes, painfully cool. 

    Drive is practically the holy grail for “literally me” fanboys.

    The entire movie is one big mood board of “I could be him, if only society didn’t suck so much.”

    What Movie is Literally Me? You’ve Got Options

    So, what movie is literally me? Honestly, pick your poison. Drive, Taxi Driver, American Psycho, The Joker—they’re all in the same twisted genre.

    These films aren’t about heroes saving the day; they’re about blokes just trying to make it through their own personal hell, one bad decision at a time.

    Want something newer? Try Nightcrawler or The Batman. Same vibe, just updated for a generation that’s grown up on memes and nihilism.

    These films have become cult classics not just because they’re well-made (though they are), but because they resonate with the growing alienation of modern life.

    They tap into a feeling that no matter how hard you try, the system is rigged, and your best bet is just to survive the chaos.

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